You should just have resisted~

Well, ever heard of love is blind? one of my friend always correct me if I use this sentence..she will tell me that love is not blind but the people are always making it blind. wanna know why? coz they are in their own world and mostly they can't differentiate what is right and wrong already..don't really care about the rules/ hukum that we should obey in Islam. Love...it doesn't comes according to our need. My analogy is, it's like when you are hungry then u will search for food rite..but love is not like that. it's not like, owh I finished my studies already so I can find my love now..that's not the way it goes. Love just comes, sometimes even without we realize about it. It just happens..even I am admitting here that love just comes without your own permission..yeh dil ki mamla kabhi2 bohot complicated ho sakhti hain..(anything related to heart can be complicated sometimes).. sometimes we keep on thinking why, why and why it happened..but I can just say that maybe this is ALLAH's will..to see how strong our iman is towards HIM, to see how we should just resisted ourselves from things that we shouldn't do, to see how we control our feelings rather than let it control us..but I know it ain't easy..esp when it comes to the person that we love rite? but what if he is not the one? we wasted our time,money n energy for someone that will not be our soulmate..x rse all those things membazir ke? what if later on when we're married,then we met back with our ex-bf/gf? don't u feel embarassed? I don't know about u all but I will get embarassed of myself..so to prevent that I must take good care of myself rite? huh..hard but got to get through all of these things.
n there's one good positive thing that I wanna share :
 there's no such thing as coincidence, everything is fated..
maybe he is the right one for us but hey c'on when the time comes we will live with our soul mate like forever rite? insyaALLAH..so,just be patient and do what we are suppose to do now..(reminder for myself too!) 
n last but not least..I wanna share something, renung2kan and understand the meanings as well okeh..=)

It started off with just a simple greeting,
A simple smile, A simple reason,
It was nothing your nafs whispered,
Just an ordinary conversation between two pals,
Then he started to ask about your personal hobbies,
Personal favorites,
He started showing care for you,

 Oh yes, you resisted at first,
It was nothing you kept on repeating,
But your nafs kept on insisting,
You began to accept,
Little by little,
Until your dreams and thoughts were filled with fantasies,
Filled with insecure lullabies,
It was nothing you kept on reminding,
The day came when you did not realize,
You were holding hands,
Sharing jokes and laughter,
Teasing and wishing every occasion,

Oh yes, You did not resist,
It was nothing you kept securing yourself,
Excuses kept getting better,
 Self-justifications wandered off nowhere to be seen,
Because once you give in,
Once you fall in,
It’s hard to get out,
It’s difficult to fall out,
It’s too late…..
You should just have resisted.