A dream of Muslimah..

 Well,today i can't really focus on my study..y?..having bad flu and feeling like having fever..but thinking back this maybe a test from ALLAH so..i'll be strong. Okay,rather than wasting my time, i read an article called a dream of a muslimah..Nowadays,i can see that most of the girls especially those who are still studying would rather use most of their time finding their MR.PERFECT in life...well i'm not excepted too..(dlu la..)but as i grow older,i started to think again..why the girls feel very worried if they can't find a bf?why they're not worried when they're not close to ALLAH?Love after marriage is sweeter than love before marriage...okay i could guarantee that some would say "pe la pmkrn kuno" or "itu dlu la skrg zaman dh berubah" n etc..but what is changing?the world is developing but we are still the same..there's a girl that i met and she asked my friend do you have a bf?..and my friend said no..i didn't expect the girl to say that.."what you don't have a bf??what a loss!"..didn't she realised that the time she used to spend with her bf is well managed if she used it to study or get to know ALLAH closer?..
       haha..actually xnk berleter but tersasar la pulak..hu3..ok back to the topic...i read about that article and i found out that there are some good points or experience that i can share with you all..
"I used to look for a romantic boyfriend before. I searched high and low but funny that I never really had a boyfriend until now. I used to ask why? The question is why. Because I’m not unpretty. But now I understand the reason behind. Having a romantic relationship outside marriage can lead to something that breaks the law of Syariah. All praise to Allah, I’m glad I never had boyfriends before. I’m not worried if I don’t find a guy any sooner. I’m not looking for a relationship anymore. And definitely not looking for someone based on how romantic he is. I’m going with the flow, after all everything about humans has been written. I want to fix myself first."
 I like this one:
I want to live with a guy who could guide me, so that I can get closer to My Creator. I want a man who can lead as an Imam, in every prayers that we’re gonna do together as married couple. A man who would tell Islamic history as a bed-time-stories to our children in the future. I want a man who’ll read the holly Quran to me, to cheer me every time I’m down. That is my dream guy and before I can meet him, I knew I need to fix myself first.
And this is the kind of guy that i am hoping to meet in the future..insyaALLAH as in the surah an-nur ayat 26:
"Sesungguhnya wanita yang baik itu dijanjikan untuk lelaki yang baik dan sebaliknya. Telah tercatat seungkap nama lelaki di loh mahfuz untukmu.Cuma peribadinya ditentukan oleh sejauh mana ketinggian peribadimu.Jika kau terhambat di atas jalan yang diredhai,InsyaALLAH si dia turut di jalan yang sama.Lupakan segala kegundahan, teguhkan diri pada cinta Hakiki nescaya cinta lelaki soleh turut kau miliki."

I don't know who else will be reading my blog but i hope that people who read my blog especially the muslimah will realize from their mistakes and thus try their best to get closer to ALLAH..i know it's not easy..but do it little by little..ALLAH SENTIASA MEMBANTU ORANG YANG MEMBANTU DIRI SENDIRI..insyaALLAH, dosa-dosa yang lalu ALLAH akan ampunkan kerana sesungguhnya ALLAH itu Maha Pengampun,Pengasih dan Penyayang..