-Sweet-

Salam,
Ladies & gentlemen out there, listen n read this :
"Aku menjaga diriku untukmu dengan harapan engkau menjaga dirimu untukku." (",)
 I feel that this sentence is just so sweet in terms of what we should do to make ourselves better so that the person that we are waiting for(soulmate) will also do the same. But of course not everyone will experience the same thing. Different people has different way of meeting their soul mate and tak semestinya kalo kita baik, jodoh kita akan 2 kali ganda lebih baik..kalo dpt mcm tu alhamdulillah la..tapi ada juga yg diuji oleh Allah. maybe one of them is not too good..so, must pray a lot to Allah and we ourselves must improve to be better day by day in order for the others to get inspired by us. InsyaAllah. :)
p/s: please take the courage to make a change of getting better in your life because we will not remain young forever. We grow up, and our responsibilities increases thus we need more strength mentally and physically. Trust me, the only tranquil strength and patience that you can get is from Allah. 
Sesungguhnya orang yg menjauhi Allah adalah org yg menzalimi diri sendiri. Nauzubillah. 

Each of us will go through this phase, insyaAllah and I really hope when the time comes, we already know who we really want to be with and not only in this world but until jannah. :) 
sweet kan? haha..I know I'm being kind of emotional..but I'm writing this based on my surroundings..friends who are engaged and married.May Allah bless u all. N I hope that I will meet my soul mate soon too though I don't know where, when and how. =.='
Let's pray and ask the best for our life from Allah. Pray so that He will send someone that He loves to come and guide us till jannah. InsyaAllah. :)