The most valuable piece in life

    When you ask anyone, anywhere in this world about what is the most valuable piece in your life, obviously we’ll get different types of answers. Some will answer their own life, their pets, friends and so on. Have anyone of you give a thought that both our parents, can also be the most valuable piece of our life?? If you have, then it’s good for you. If you don’t, then..continue reading my explanation la.

            Family..is the most crucial constitution in building up a community. For example, to build a stable building, you need to have a strong base, and to have a strong base, you need to have a material of high quality. So, basically, family can be considered as the material whereby the responsibility of producing a child that has good qualities within him/her goes to both the parents. But this also depends on the attitude of the parents.

            What I am trying to stress out here is, no matter how our parent’s attitude are, we should still respect and care about them. We shouldn’t have the hatred for them. Actually, we don’t even have the right to hate them because no matter how much you hate them, you cannot change the fact that they are your parents. So, rather than torturing your emotions, you should do something to change them to be better right? Talk to them, discuss with them about what you think or the least that you can do is to pray for them.

             I always get sensitive when talking about family. So, I do get very emotional looking at children who do not respect their parents. Especially to those who send their parents to the nursery. I pity them a lot. It always make me think back about those precious moments when our mother risks their own life in giving birth to us, our dad who works everyday or at least try hard to find money to take good care of their own family and many more. The lists goes on...trust me. Sincerely speaking, although we sacrifice our life for them, the hardship that they went through for us are incompatible and priceless. Thus, the simplest thing that we can do to make them very happy is by being a good and responsible child towards them and become a human being which has good qualities within ourselves. Make them proud of having us.            Seriously, I can still remember both my parent’s expression when I brought them my examination results..and when I got the offer to join the National Service.haha..I just can pray and hope that I can continue to be a daughter who can accomplish my tasks and responsibilities well. inshaAllah.

            Last but not least, the only thing that I can say is not all of us are same. Not all of us are lucky. Sometimes reality bites but always think positive. Allah knows the best for us. Let’s just hope for the best and pray for the best okay.

Fear (and respect) Allah, and know that He has knowledge of all things. [2:231]

Sesungguhnya, Allah itu dekat.

Just read a hadith about Allah. I was touched. When I was reading it once, my heart was beating hardly. Second time, tears coming out. Third time, I realized how great He is to all of us. Subhanallah.

Di dalam sebuah hadis Qudsi, Allah berfirman:

"Aku bergantung pada persangkaan hamba-Ku terhadap-Ku, Aku pasti bersamanya ketika dia mengingati-Ku. Maka jika ia mengingati-Ku dalam dirinya, Aku akan menyebutnya dalam Diri-Ku, jika ia mengingat-Ku dalam suatu jamaah, Aku akan menyebutnya dalam suatu jamaah yang jauh lebih baik daripada mereka, jika ia mendekat kepada-Ku sejengkal, Aku akan mendekat kepadanya sehasta, jika ia mendekat kepada-Ku sehasta, Aku akan mendekat kepadanya sedepa, jika dia mendekat kepada-Ku dengan berjalan, Aku akan mendekatinya dengan berlari."

(Muttafaq-A'laih)

Life is not always easy. Tambahan manusia ni memang cepat lupa, lalai dan lemah terutamanya apabila ditimpa musibah. So, find an upbeat surrounding or atmosphere. I mean find friends who always being supportive..who will lead us nearer to Allah and our success in world and hereafter, inshaAllah. Tapi kalau dapat kawan yang kurang baik tu, janganlah tinggalkan dia. Tarik dia ke arah kebaikan. Amar makruf nahi mungkar. :) Next,watch inspiring movies..which have good moral values. As for me, I love to watch thriller,adventurous  and science fictions. That's one of my way of being strong. You can watch romantic movies but don't watch too much. Limit yourself. But the most important thing is, read al-Quran everyday. Seriously, that is the biggest secret of being strong emotionally and mentally. So, to those who still don't have Quran with them, I would suggest to buy it with its translation together and read it everyday to understand it.

If we want to talk to Allah, then perform shalat but if you want Allah to talk to you, then read the Quran. Reading Al-Mathurat is also like providing a bionic power to us. (al-mathurat ialah  kumpulan wirid dan doa harian yang selalu dibaca oleh Rasulallah s.a.w)

Apabila kita semua dah penat, jadikan semua ni sebagai santapan untuk rohani kita..tapi amalkan selalu jangan tunggu bila penat saja tau. Sediakan payung sebelum hujan! 

I know for beginners it ain't that easy. But trust me..I was a beginner. others also are. Each of us tried our best to prove that we can do it. It's like trying to get 4 flat for the level of our Iman. (Please ponder yang iman kita sentiasa bertambah dan berkurang. Ini bermaksud kita perlu sentiasa berusaha untuk merasai kemanisan iman tersebut.) Although it is tough but Allah will look at how much effort we had put in to change to be better. He will not only look at the outcome. Allah is the Most Fair & Just. Let's get to know more about our Creator!

Moving on

Life is not called life where u don't have a journey,

A journey is not called a journey if u don't have challenges,

Challenges are not called challenges if they're not meant to teach us lessons,

Lessons that are important in our life,

Lessons that will eventually be our experience,

Experience that make us more mature in solving any problems in the future,

Experience that make us not to repeat the same mistake in the future,

Experience that make us think back of all the things that we had done,

It can be a good or a bad memory..

The good ones are meant to be kept in a special place in the heart while the bad ones are meant to be kept in the brain securely so that we will never ever go back again to that port.

I just wanna say that, everything that happened throughout my life thought me a lot of things..even until now and till the end of my life,it will still teach me about those precious things to be valued on Earth.

All of the things I had gone through made me realize of a lot of things.

Things that are good & bad..things that are expected & unexpected..things that are silly & stupid..

Learning about commitments & responsibility made me realize of life aint that easy.

It has never been...so, I won't take my life for granted!

Rather than complaining, I must find a way to solve it,

Rather than being mad, I must learn to control the anger,

Rather than watching others do mistakes, I must tell & advice them..

Life is not that complicated though..it's us who decide how we wanna live for our future..

 I am moving on..to a smoother pace of my life (inshaAllah) where there will be a lot of improvement on myself,

Where less people who will really know who I am,

Where it will be harder for them to understand me (maybe),

Because I don't want to burden them with my problems,

The least that I can do is by trying to solve it though it takes way lot of courage to try..

khoshish karne walo kabhi har nahi hoti...

Keep that in mind..ALWAYS!

Holiday is finishing!

Salam...err my mid sem holiday is finishing la..

the last time, I remembered bringing back asgmts to be done but cn only finish a few. hehe..

well,don't blame me ok since it's holiday so, I'm really using it maximumly doing lots of things.

Going out with family..jalan2 maa..

Driving my sisters to school..(b4 chinese new year's holiday)

wandering around the town..

Visiting relatives..

but among all, I think we did the last one the most..

ya..we visited most our relatives during the holiday..penat2

I just realized dat there are so many of them!

it's kinda hard too when we have lots of relatives..seriously, no joke!

wanna know why?..coz we cannot take care of everybody well rite?

for example, when we are getting married, n we are suppose to go n invite all of our relatives, it's kinda hard to go n meet all of them.agree?

kalo ada yg sempat tu,alhamdulillah..good la. but kalo yg x cukup masa how?

confirm nnt mesti ada yg merungut didn't invite us the right way la..bla bla bla but kalo ada yg terlupa nk jmpt?lg haru..hoho

so, my advice is simple..just visit them now and then so dat we will remember them, insyaAllah.

actually, today we visited one of my papa's uncle. His son is getting married tomorrow but I won't be able to attend it so, my dad brought us all to go and meet them.

N wanna know what happened?

I just found out that they're mix as well!

punjab muslim wei!

finally, gotta speak hindi. I mean punjab live la!

hehe..kinda overreact.but my great grand dadima there speaks punjab very well.

hmm..there's difference btw hindi n punjab. punjab is more difficult. Hindi is kinda simpler.

My great grand dadima here just recovered from..I dunno wat actually happened but they did MRI, really checked her I must say. She's 88 but uski dil badi changgi hain. 

(her heart is still very healthy)

alhamdulillah..n I really love wat she told us when we were there. Simple yet very meaningful.

Niat itu penting, 

niat baik, Allah balas baik.

Niat jahat, Allah balas jahat.

It's so true..mesti dh byk kali dgr rite? but it's different when you hear it from someone special like my dadima here. ^_^

Gosh..I'm gonna miss everything here..

InsyaAllah, there's lot more to be done to have a good future for myself n my family.

Family comes first, bring your heart home..hehe