Friday, October 29, 2010

Ek dukhi si dil kei liye..=)

hmm..feeling bored, but I shouldn't be feeling like this because another 2 more papers to go n a project to be settled before I go back home! actually, dat day I bought majalah SOLUSI..edisi cetak ulangan..bab hati kot. ha'ah betullah and kononnya nak simpan n baca time on the way balik rumah..but what to do, hati pn dah meronta2 nak baca, so baca la jugak kan..hehe
and I would as usual wanna share with whoever who read this blog 4 sure ;


Duhai mata yg sedang menangis.....


Tangisan bukan keaiban tapi satu keperluan. Sama ada kau lelaki atau wanita, kau perlu pada tangisan. Ia menjernihkan kornea dan menajamkan penglihatan. Ia meringankan ketegangan jiwa. Ia mengungkapkan kesedihan lalu merungkai beban yang tersimpan.


Jika kau lelaki, kenapa perlu malu pada tangisan? Mungkin sosiobudaya mendidikmu bahawa tangisan itu satu kelemahan dalam mengendalikan kemampuan. Kau mungkin dipisahkan antara diri dengan perasaanmu sendiri oleh didikan silam. Apa pun,tak siapa dapat menafikan kau juga insan yang punyai hati dan perasaan. Isi hatimu kadangkala perlu diluahkan dengan tangisan untuk mengurangkan tekanan dan risiko penyakit. Tak perlu menipu diri berlagak kuat dengan menafikan air mata kerana kelak badanmu mendapat darurat.


Jika kau wanita,kau mungkin lebih banyak menangis daripada lelaki. Tahukah engkau betapa penyayang-Nya ALLAH padamu hingga Dia menciptakan kalenjar-kalenjar air matamu lebih besar daripada lelaki. Tidak hairanlah kajian ilmiah menunjukkan kau menangis 4x lebih banyak dari lelaki.


Ia antara penyebab panjangnya usiamu berbanding lelaki. Masakan tidak, air matamu keluar bersama keluarnya peratusan racun dari tubuh. Doktor pakar mata berkata, air mata penting untuk menyucikan mata daripada racun yang keluar akibat ketegangan urat saraf perasaan dan emosi yang tidak stabil.


by FATIMAH SYARHA MOHD NOORDIN~


niway, my title means "for those who are sad," bad mood, confused n apa2 yg seangkatan dengannya la..
so, my advice for all and including myself is always look at the bright side of life of whatever that happens..and always remember what happens in you is more important than what happens to you..hamesha and forever..^_^
and sometimes we need to cry because it's the best way of reducing our burden..don't expect ourselves to always be strong ok.
till then, bittaufiq wannajah fil imtihan..;p



Tuesday, October 26, 2010

critical mind thinking~

Today was my 1st paper of final exam..open book okay..haha
bila masuk exam hall tadi student yang lain semua tercengang.."pehal tbe2 leh bw msk buku nih?", "open book eh?wah..bestnya!"..n etc la but for ur kind information blaja engine ni it's more of having a creative n critical thinking coz we have more applications to be solved rather than read and memorize..
bawa buku tadi tu membantu la sikit2..but majority I had to think out of the box n masa pun tak cukup kot tadi..one of my lecturer said.."korang, kalo tmbh lagi 3 jam pn xkn cukup.." haha..mmg btol gak la..ish manusia,,mmg susah mau bersyukur ey..shahirah, change that bad habit! what else?hmm..xde pape kot.. otak pn dh rse cm nk putus fius je jwb sln tuh..rse cm kelakar pn ad ble fikir blk psl exam tadi..haru la shahirah camni..focus on next paper..focus3!
gtg..till then sayonara ok! hehehe..

" Ilmu itu lebih baik daripada harta. Ilmu menjaga engkau dan engkau menjaga harta. Ilmu itu penghukum (hakim) dan harta terhukum. "

Saturday, October 23, 2010

You should just have resisted~

Well, ever heard of love is blind? one of my friend always correct me if I use this sentence..she will tell me that love is not blind but the people are always making it blind. wanna know why? coz they are in their own world and mostly they can't differentiate what is right and wrong already..don't really care about the rules/ hukum that we should obey in Islam. Love...it doesn't comes according to our need. My analogy is, it's like when you are hungry then u will search for food rite..but love is not like that. it's not like, owh I finished my studies already so I can find my love now..that's not the way it goes. Love just comes, sometimes even without we realize about it. It just happens..even I am admitting here that love just comes without your own permission..yeh dil ki mamla kabhi2 bohot complicated ho sakhti hain..(anything related to heart can be complicated sometimes).. sometimes we keep on thinking why, why and why it happened..but I can just say that maybe this is ALLAH's will..to see how strong our iman is towards HIM, to see how we should just resisted ourselves from things that we shouldn't do, to see how we control our feelings rather than let it control us..but I know it ain't easy..esp when it comes to the person that we love rite? but what if he is not the one? we wasted our time,money n energy for someone that will not be our soulmate..x rse all those things membazir ke? what if later on when we're married,then we met back with our ex-bf/gf? don't u feel embarassed? I don't know about u all but I will get embarassed of myself..so to prevent that I must take good care of myself rite? huh..hard but got to get through all of these things.
n there's one good positive thing that I wanna share :
 there's no such thing as coincidence, everything is fated..
maybe he is the right one for us but hey c'on when the time comes we will live with our soul mate like forever rite? insyaALLAH..so,just be patient and do what we are suppose to do now..(reminder for myself too!) 
n last but not least..I wanna share something, renung2kan and understand the meanings as well okeh..=)

It started off with just a simple greeting,
A simple smile, A simple reason,
It was nothing your nafs whispered,
Just an ordinary conversation between two pals,
Then he started to ask about your personal hobbies,
Personal favorites,
He started showing care for you,

 Oh yes, you resisted at first,
It was nothing you kept on repeating,
But your nafs kept on insisting,
You began to accept,
Little by little,
Until your dreams and thoughts were filled with fantasies,
Filled with insecure lullabies,
It was nothing you kept on reminding,
The day came when you did not realize,
You were holding hands,
Sharing jokes and laughter,
Teasing and wishing every occasion,

Oh yes, You did not resist,
It was nothing you kept securing yourself,
Excuses kept getting better,
 Self-justifications wandered off nowhere to be seen,
Because once you give in,
Once you fall in,
It’s hard to get out,
It’s difficult to fall out,
It’s too late…..
You should just have resisted. 

Tuesday, October 12, 2010

A conversation btw heart and brain..

Basically, I am facing this kind of problem..don't know about the others :

  
Heart : Urgh..susahnya nak berubah..change to be a better person..
Brain : Where there's a will, there's a way..ALLAH tak tengok pada natijah tapi tengok pada usaha..=)
Heart : why is it so hard to control myself?? selalu berperang dengan perasaan sendiri and diri sendiri.. susahnya nak tinggalkan benda biasa yang kita buat..:(
Brain : Ingat tak..hati ialah raja segala badan? it takes control of everything..your mind, emotions, and etc. so, kalau baik hati tu baiklah semua tapi kalau busuk hati tuh..pkir2 la sendiri..I think u r good enough at differentiating wat is good and bad for yourself..
Heart : hmm..cakap mmg senang tp nk laksanakannya susah tau tak??
Brain : tgk surah an-nur : 40.."Barang siapa tidak diberi cahaya(petunjuk) oleh ALLAH, maka dia tidak mempunyai cahaya sedikitpun." nak ke termasuk dlm glgn tuh? nauzubillah min zalik..Remember bukan selalu ALLAH memberi petunjuk kepada kita..hanya orang-orang yang terpilih sahaja..jangan smp ALLAH merajuk dgn kita sebab menolak cahaya yang diberikan..^_^
Heart : but kenapa iman selalu bertambah & berkurang?? aah..ssh3!
Brain : Hey,girl...ingat hanya iman nabi shj yang sentiasa naik..ALLAH bg kita rasa nikmatnya bila iman naik. Then, kita akan selalu berusaha..actually,Allah wants to tell us that He loves people who work hard to improve their iman
Heart : oohh..so do u think I can do it? mampukah??..
Brain : haha..inshaALLAH..let's do it together because I really need you by my side because with you, we can make the best out of everything.InshaALLAH..=)
so,wat say?
Heart : InshaALLAH..let's do this! 
                    


p/s : special thanx to kak saadiah ^.^